You can start with silence
Nobody will pressure you to explain or move faster than you want.
Human peer support after pregnancy loss
You don’t have to find the words to be heard.
Unspoken But Heard offers a calm place to connect with a trained Support Companion. You can open a chat, share only what feels right, or simply start with silence.
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You can start with:
“I don’t know what to say.”
A Support Companion can stay present. There is no rush to explain.
Someone can be there
Support that starts where you are.
The first step is a private chat with a trained human. We ask for the minimum needed to connect you—not a medical history, hospital, address or account of your loss.
Private chat
Chat is the default. Optional voice or video is not enabled in this milestone and will never start without active consent.
Support Circles
Small, moderated groups are planned, but are not yet open. They will not be public forums.
Who we support
However loss has touched your life.
Support is for people directly affected, including partners, parents, families and others close to them.
Ectopic pregnancyMiscarriageMolar pregnancyTFMRStillbirthNeonatal lossOther pregnancy or baby lossPregnancy after lossLonger-term effects
Partners & families
Your experience matters too.
You may be grieving, supporting somebody else, or unsure where your own feelings fit. You are welcome to ask for peer support without speaking for the person who experienced the pregnancy.
How it works
Technology routes the conversation. People provide the support.
During advertised hours, a request enters a controlled queue. An authorised Support Companion accepts and joins a private chat. A duty safeguarding route must also be available before the service can open.
What we are
Human peer support
- A private place to chat or sit in silence
- Support from a trained Support Companion
- Approved signposting when another service may help
- Human safeguarding escalation when there is concern
Clear boundary
What we do not provide
Unspoken But Heard provides peer support. We do not diagnose conditions, interpret test results, recommend treatment or provide emergency medical or mental-health care.
Find urgent and alternative helpAbout us
Building a safeguarded community service.
Unspoken But Heard is working towards becoming a Community Interest Company. Live support remains closed beta while governance, safeguarding, clinical, privacy and operational launch conditions are completed. We do not claim NHS endorsement or partnership.
Become a Support Companion
This is a voluntary peer-support role. Training, safeguarding expectations, boundaries, reliability, supervision and a controlled assessment process are mandatory. Applying does not grant live-service access.
Support our work
Donations, fundraising, corporate support and responsible partnerships will help build the service. Access to peer support will never depend on donating.
Partner with usHealthcare professionals
We are developing a chat-support and signposting model. No NHS referral relationship or endorsement is currently claimed.
Discuss future collaborationUrgent help
UBH is not an emergency service.
If you or somebody else is in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E. For urgent health support in England when it is not life-threatening, use NHS 111 online or call 111. You can also contact your GP or urgent GP service.
Specialist routes shown by UBH must come from the approved signposting directory.
Privacy
Support content is not used for advertising, AI training, sentiment analysis or automated clinical or safeguarding decisions. Routine conversation retention is configurable and subject to final legal approval; specific records may be preserved for safeguarding or legal reasons.
Controller details, lawful bases, Article 9 condition, processor list, transfer information and ICO details await formal approval.
Cookies & notifications
Only essential session and service storage is used. No advertising or non-essential analytics trackers are loaded. Support notifications use neutral wording and omit message previews.
Accessibility
We aim for keyboard access, visible focus, readable contrast, meaningful structure, comfortable touch targets and reduced-motion support.
Your data rights
Account deletion and data-rights handling are being prepared. The privacy contact and verified controller details must be approved before publication.
Complaints & Concerns
You can raise a concern without signing in.
You can complain about the service, a Support Companion, safeguarding, privacy, accessibility, discrimination, a technical problem or other conduct. You will not be required to contact the person concerned.